Undertake administrative education to the child, it is severe impose surelysubject sb to discipline, still want bold let go? This is having different knowledge among the parent, and each have each opinion.
Think to should father impose surelysubject sb to discipline, the parent that cannot let go says: "Do not become circumference without custom. To dot must at every turn is severe impose surelysubject sb to discipline, cannot have the relaxation of a bit! Cannot have the relaxation of a bit!!
Think should bold let go, the parent that cannot pass much control says: "Want to develop the child's individual character and independent character, must let go the thing that allows the child to do his to wish to do. At every turn is in charge of too severely, meeting suppress child manages the development of gender and independent character.
This is really " fair say communal reason, the mother-in-law says the mother-in-law is justifiable " . The it is stated to have reason that parents say. Is be, dot people experience of life is insufficient, resolution is dispute, good and evil, beautiful ugly ability is poorer, often be in order to be not by accident is, with evil for be apt to, with ugly for the United States, give err the business. If no matter be,do not teach, let things drift, time grew, the behavior habit with probable meeting undesirable nurturance and thought moral character. Want correct again in the future, that is very difficult. Lax impose surelysubject sb to discipline, won't do really.
But, also cannot at every turn wants control, a bit also does not let go. If at every turn check is gotten closely, of Yan Yan, must not do this, must not do that, do not let them be carried out personally, the hands or feet that that is equal to is a child and brains give manacle came in, can make the child dumbstrucks, at every turn cannot, lose existent ability, cannot get used to social life. Accordingly, at every turn is in charge of too closely too severe, also won't do. Look, two extremes go be illogical.
So, how ought to do?
Liu of chairman of great proletarian revolutionist, former state surprises less, have his original understanding and way to this problem, be worth parents to learn. He once had said so to the staff member beside: "To dot, it is to should be in charge of, 2 it is to should be put. What be in charge of? Study is bad, moral character is bad, without courtesy... this wants a canal. What is put? Bear hardships li hardily thing, via the thing of harships see life, should let go let the child work. Should let go let the child work..
Chairman Liu Shaoji when the child in him certainly, be how do? Say first " canal " . The boy of his home eats jujube steamed bread of corn in the school in one's childhood, light eats a jujube, give steamed bread of corn threw. After he knows, offer sharp criticism ruthlessly. The in residence when the boy goes to school, his dress not oneself are washed, the aunt that invites the school however gives wash. Liu Shaoji knew, likewise sharp criticism he lacks attitude to labor. And adjuration dress must oneself are washed.
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