What thing has the rhythm of its oneself. Play musical instrument, sing, love, make love to not be inferior to this. The ego of a person proposes form, not exceptional also.

To this, a lot of children leave impression to me. For instance the source is mixed good, although the age is small still, but they are to have their type. Especially source is more typical. In my eye, the source is apparently from the heart is not the person that external environment gets energy, it is active and open that he serves the external world, but his cognitive means characteristic is: Only he wanted to be clear about, ability is unlocked go do, the Qing Dynasty that can appear to be patted slow so besides. This is his rhythm, we cannot expect he is instant namely the response rate of the thing; When he has begun to think how to answer a question, we had better shut a mouth to await; When he is digesting the requirement that we raise, we avoid to chatter and urge.

Of the life take exercise, the growth of the age, can help him make judgement quickly to a lot of things, but he can be forever strive is done " right thing " person, wanted to be clear about ability to unlock only do, this kind of cognitive style and rhythm are can constant of existence.

Still having is Qi. In the world of Qi, illusion and reality are bounds faintness and interweave collateral, the road gift that its need takes very long decides oneself and this world's appropriate join means. Ask and interrupt impatiently inflexibly, puerile to him heart bud is disastrous, it is the commonnest however. Fortunately of the understanding of Qi Qi mom to education and life accumulate already can appropriate answer, if Qi is not the child of Qi Mom, I can replace him secretly Nie a sweat.

Understanding child is immanent the rhythm of ego, a lot of things are good say much. If we do not have this consciousness, if we are him at one's convenience only subjective expectation, if we cannot be cast off from numerous heart, we break the child's immanent rhythm very easily, if degree is very heavy, what can cause child heart is disorder, again serious it is psychological disease.

Education " Education " come from at Latin " Educare " , "Educare " literal means " take " and " guide " . In other words, education is a child the thing brings this some to come out and make grow and show his due face, is not to say the stuff stuff that thinks us arrives in child heart, the made pattern that grow and shows us to expect.

It is better to if we affirm we want to help the child,become him oneself, is not the intention that asks the child accords with us; So, detect and respect immanent rhythm of the child, namely necessary to main issue.